These can help ease your pain:
- Pain medicine. Ibuprofen or acetaminophen can help reduce pain. Ask your doctor what dose is safe if you are breastfeeding.
- Cool pack. Put an ice pack or cool pack on your perineum. Protect your skin with a thin towel. Keep the cool pack in place for 10 to 20 minutes at a time. You can do this several times a day, as needed.
- Cool sitz baths. This means sitting in a shallow tub of cool water for 20 to 30 minutes. Make sure your sore areas are fully in the water. You can do this several times a day as needed. Have a sitz bath after every bowel movement.
- Medicated spray. You can use a pain-relief spray on the area as advised by your doctor.
Tell your doctor if you can't urinate because of pain. You may need a catheter while your perineum heals. A thin, flexible tube (catheter) will be put into your urethra. Your urine will collect in a bag.
Until you are cleared by your doctor:
- Don't use tampons or put anything in your vagina.
- Wait to have sex until you talk to your doctor about it. Most doctors recommend waiting about 6 weeks after giving birth to have sex again. You may still feel some pain.
If you had an episiotomy or tear
An episiotomy is a cut (incision) made to make the opening of the vagina larger. Or the tissue may tear on its own. Stitches are used to repair the skin in the perineum. The stitches will dissolve on their own in a few weeks. They don't need to be removed by your doctor. You need to lower the risk of infection by keeping your stitches clean. To do this:
- Gently wipe or pat from front to back after you have a bowel movement, or take a sitz bath.
- After wiping, spray warm water on the stitches with a squirt bottle. Pat dry.
- After urination, it's okay not to wipe. Just spray with warm water and then pat dry.
- Don't use soap or any cleaner except water unless your doctor advises it.
- Change your sanitary pads at least every 2 to 4 hours.