Bedwetting, or urinating when sleeping, can be frustrating for both you and your child. But it's usually not a sign of a major problem. Your child's body may simply need more time to mature. If a child suddenly starts wetting the bed, the cause is often a lifestyle change (such as starting school) or a stressful event (such as the birth of a sibling). But whatever the cause, it's not in your child's direct control. If your child wets the bed:
- Keep in mind that your child is not wetting on purpose. Never punish or tease a child for wetting the bed. Punishment or shaming may make the problem worse, not better.
- To help your child, be positive and supportive. Praise your child for not wetting and even for trying hard to stay dry.
- Two hours before bedtime don't serve your child anything to drink.
- Remind your child to use the toilet before bed. You could also wake them to use the bathroom before you go to bed yourself.
- Have a routine for changing sheets and pajamas when the child wets. Try to make this routine as calm and orderly as possible. This will help keep both you and your child from getting too upset or frustrated to go back to sleep.
- Put up a calendar or chart and give your child a star or sticker for nights that they don't wet the bed.
- Encourage your child to get out of bed and try to use the toilet if they wake during the night. Put night-lights in the bedroom, hallway, and bathroom to help your child feel safer walking to the bathroom.
- If you have concerns about bedwetting, discuss them with the doctor.